Regrets

      If you were to ask me straight up if I had any regrets I would initially say no. Of course, it's not like I have never made any mistakes, I can assure you that I have made many if not tons of mistakes in the short live that I have lived so far. I have not only made mistakes but have just done things in general that are bad or that could have been dealt with in a different or better manner. I will admit that I mess up many different times at many different things and interactions but do I regret anything? Every day we fall and fail but life goes on. I used to feel regret all the time when I was a bit younger but I was sick of being sorry even though it has already passed and nothing can be done, I got sick of all the stressing and guessing what to do next. Does regreting really help? I never understood that aspect that why do we feel regret if we can't go back and fix things, shouldn't we just accept it and move on with the day? Well, that's why you won't hear me say I have any regrets. Although I wouldn't consider that I have any regrets, that doesn't mean I don't feel bad when I do something wrong or inconsiderate. Instead of feeling bad for something that I have done I see what I have done any see what I can do to fix it. If there is no possible way to right what I have done wrong then I have no choice but to live on. I don't want to regret things that I have no control over anymore so I would rather comprehend that incident as a learning experience and understand what I have done wrong and try my hardest to avoid those occurrences. Have I ever had regrets in the past? Well quite frankly, yes. I should trust my own judgment instead of listening to my friends most of the time. Sometimes I would listen to what my friends say and do things that I would otherwise not attempt. I won't go into detail at all really. Some say that they would like to go back and change things, I have been asked this but I reply no because I know that I would like to make a small mistake regarding listening to my friends now while they are still not that bad rather than in the future when it could make a huge impact on my life in the future.